Most Beasts of us also appreciate the potential for pleasure in the send nipples « earlobes, and the fee A woman's bras nipples, the buttocks, the earlobes, and the feet. Some people are turned on senstive, ad gen by having theit calves touched, or the inside of their arm.
For oth- eyunsean be ers, it is anywhere they have skin! For example, om average there are about 1, sensory receptors, including touch-sensitive nerve endings, in every square inch of a woman's skin. The skin's sensitivity to stimuli varies from one part of the body to another, and the erogenous zones are among the areas that are especially sensitive to touch.
Womans the hl rn female who has swollen mammary glands when she is not producing milk, which highlights the role of the breasts as being more than simply a means of feeding her yor In addition to serving to attract the male, the breasts are undeniably one of the mo. Significant pleasure zones. Having their nipples rubbed and kissed and their breasts gent! Like the breasts, female buttocks are usually more pro: nounced than mide ones, and with both breasis and buttocks it is their roumihiess—for most men preferably cinspled with firm- neso—that les atthe heat of ceir appeal.
Now, as in the time of the Kama Sutra, the way a couple feels about the setting for lovemaking is of prime importance, and in. First, make sure that in cold weather the room is warm enough but nor stuffy , and that in hot weather it is refreshingly cool.
It is a good idea to provide background music that enhances the mood—neither too raucous oF agitated, as this will not be conducive to a tender exchange, nor too soporific, which will make you feel sleepy. Tastes in music vary widely, but it is important to choose something that makes you and your parmner feel relayed and at the same time alere and attentive to each other.
Naturally you will not want to be disturbed, so if you do not have an answering machine, it may be best to unplug the phone or leave it off the hook. Finally, sexual ps d drink may on and overindulgence in food a be linked in the popular image of the complete sensualist, but in practice the combination seldom works.
While it is often tempting to preface your lovemaking with a lavish meal, or even worse, with a surfeit of aleobol, neither will do anything for you and your part ner, whether just one or both of you have indulged. There should also be a sort of couch besides, and at the head of this a sort of stool.
Sorr Licht The gentle, ickering glow of candlelight is much more romantic than electric light but, for safety, keep the candles well away from your bedding and other flammable materials. The Twining of a Creeper and Climbing a Tree are used when the lovers are standing but not in sexual union, while the Mixture of Sesamum Seed with Rice and the Milk and Water Embrace are adopted during congress.
Using the tip of your tongue, make featherlight strokes up arxl down her perineum. Mowe on from this to kissing and licking her pubic mound, the outer lips of her vagina, andl then her clitoms. A gradual approach such as this, perhaps even starting at her breasts and nipples and then working downward helps buid sexual tension, and is also use if she is a lztle unsure abo induding i oral sex dnd need a gene introduction to genital kissing LABIA AND VAGINA.
This lubrication, besides allowing the vagina to receive a fully erect penis without discomfort, actually changes the way in which genital touch is experienced, making it pleasitable and fll of sensuality, The actustl stimulation doesn't have to be focused exchisively on the vagina itself, although itis usually more sflective when itis.
These are inexpensive, and available from any pharmacy. One of the secrets of giving good cunnilingus sto vary the strokes to give her an ever-changing range of sensations. In fact, the work describes emly about two doxen positions, and most of these are relatively easy to accomplish if the woman is reasonably supple. Its author, Vatsyayana, lists eight basic positions that had been described by an earlier writer, Babhravya, and attributes the descriptions of most of the rest to another early author, Suvarnanabha.
She may also do this to satisfy the curiosity of her lover, or her own desire of novelty. Offsetting this, though, is the undeniable eroticism of the position.
Her genitals are displayed, and the helplessness she feels when in this position can bea powerful tum-on. Kegel, the American gynecologist who popuilariced their use. You can do these simple but very effective exercises anywhere and at any tie—in the office, in the home, in the garden, To find your PC muscles, practice stopping the flow of your urine next time you go to the bathroom. The muscles that you use to stop the flow are the PC muscles.
Practice stopping the flow several times, to get used te controlling the muscles. Then li down slipa finger into your vagina, and contract the PC muscles again. Pretend thavinside your vagina aan elevator.
Your job isto move it to the top of yout vagina, making three stops on the way. Stretching is in itself a sexy sensation, and this may encourage the woman to move carefully under her man so thar the shaft of the penis gets some extra vaginal vibra- tion. It can be a surprisingly loving gesture should he choose to eatess her foot, possiily even raising ito kiss asa demonstration of afiection. The man should take each of is pacers feet in turn, massage it, and then hold i behind the ankle sith cone hand and slowly rotate it with the other.
The sensations for both pareners will be subily different froin those produced by the Half-Pressed Position, but the man must find a depth and force of penetration that avoids causing pain to her shortened vagina, THs POSITION, LIKE the Half Pressed, is one in which the woman assumes a submissive posture: This can create arousing subconscious emotions in both partners, enabling the woman to feel vulnerable and the man to feel powerful.
Her leg and fot then resemble a harwner driving in a nail, represented by his head HAVE FUN Waite miking love—no one has decrved that sex should be a solemn business. Positions such as this are meant tobe enjoyed in a lighthearted manner.
In this ease, when the man turns around, hispartner can demonstrate tenderness toward him by embracing or caressing, his hack, shoulders, and sides. J and the other classic Eastern texts on love placed great emphasis on the standing positions.
If the woman is light, however, he may he able to support her with one arm around her waist, using the other hand to caress ber. The advantage of leaning on a wall is that with the woman firmly supporced, the man finds iteasier vigorously. She is most likely to do this either as a variation for its own sake or when her partner is tired but she is still not satisfied.
Vatsyayana sees these positions as transitional, with the man eventually resuming the active role. THE Top According to Vatsyayana, this movement requies ceusiderable dexterity and is achieved only through practice.
While she ts perfecting this maneuver, the woman should take care not tolose her balance; otherwise, she may hurt both herself and her partner. In the cdse of the Top, he your Balance could end up with an injured penis. This is not a position ro be encouraged. She draws his penis into her and, squeezing it repeatedly withthe muscles of her vagina, holds it tight for a long time.
By using her vaginal muscles see Kegel exerciwes, page 77 , the woman may stimulate her man while also herself. In this challenging variation om the more common rearentry postures in which the woman kneels, she supports herself on her hands and feet and her petrtner mounts her like a bull. Instead, he suggests that, by seeking inspiration from the mating habits of the animal kingdom, imaginative lovers can greatly extend their repertoires. Therefore, it is much closer in time to the Arabian classic The Perfumed Garden, although it is culturally very different.
The Ananga Ranga was translated into Arabic; as a result, it exerted a strong influence on the sexual attitudes of the Islamic world. The late- medieval India of the Ananga Ranga was, like the Arab world, much more ordered than that which produced the Kama Sutra.
Sexwality was freely expressed within and outside marriage in the time of Vatsyayana, but Kalyana Malla, the author of the Ananga Ranga, reflected a rigid society that censured extramarital sex, The major practical difference between the two Indian classics is that the Kama Sutra was written for lovers, married or otherwise, while the Ananga Ranga does not question the sanctity of marriage and explicitly offers instruction to the married man.
If the arin re just the vg sete butiocks on the bed but, ald demanding, iis less muta stimulating. He then passes his arms on either side of hey body, keeping them straight. It's a dimensions thac allows sex, like a type of medication, to bring Ws to a of well-being. Before entering her. If contiol and helplessness are important aspects of your relationship, then this could be extremely arousing inentally, although in sexual terms 46 no particularly satisfactory for the woman.
By crossing her ames behind his back, she can draw him closer to her and increase the feeling of intimacy. We know that the effects of aginy eas include damage tothe arteries that supply load to the penis, which may cause impotence. Aging can also infic weakness of the valves of the veins that hold the Hlood in the erect penis, ind this ray cause loss of ere: tion.
The opening of the vagin receives strong stimulation, and for this reason some women value the position as a prelude to deeper penetration. The theory behind this technique is that ifthe clitoris is exposed to the thrise of intercourse is more likely to be stimulated. He then lifts her legs straight up. Like all the side-by-side positions, itis useful ce. Wher describing a side-by-side position, the Kama Sutra says that when either partner is dred but still pass the man should lie on his left side and the woman on her right.
This rule is not mentioned by Kalyana Malla, but the suggestion was no doubt prompted by the now, most men were right-handed. However if the man is left-handed and wants to caress his partner with that hand psig coven or if the woman wants to car her partner with her right hand, ic makes sense co reverse the position.
After the woman has raised one leg slightly to allow her parmer to enter her, he raises one leg and rests it on her thigh. The penis thrusts are felt along the insides of the labia, which are pressed against the ppehis by the legs, so these positions also give the woman an, sed likelihood of arousal and orgasm.
And if rhe man pulls himself up a litte higher in relation to the woman's body chat is, coward her head , he can ensure that his penis brushes against her clitoris. Her face ispleasingas the full moon; her brady, well clothed with flesh is soft asthe Shiras [tall fragrant tree] or mustard flower, her skin is fine, ene der, and fair asthe yellow lotus, never dark-colored, though resem bling, in the effervescence and pur- ple light of her youth, the cloud about to burst.
The hair is thin about the Yoru, the Mons Veneris be seft, fase, and ound. The Kamo- salila love-seed is hot, and has the perfume of honey, prducing fe abundance a sound daring the veriereal rte. Her eyes rol, and her walk is coquettsh, like the swing of atv elephant. They are mainly positions with which to give thie male a treat, for iis the woman who tends to do all the work. One of the great strengths of the Indian ove texts, however, is thar although they always appear to be written from a male point of view, they are very fair, given their era, in paying attention to the sexual needs of both partners.
Her hair is tawny, her lips are large; her voice is harsh, choked, and throaty, and her neck is bent. To achieve that greater buildup, time is needed to tease and tantalize the senses, so itis unwise to wear yourself out by treating your lovemuking a a gymnastics sesion. Here humble an his demeanor bis appetite for food is small, and he is moderate in his elbow and moves her from side to side.
His body ed to a strong man and a light woman. He is tall an lar framed, but not fleshy, and his delight is in hig and robust women,. He is reckless in spirit, passionate and covetous, ghutonons, volatile, and fll of sleep. These positions are termed purushayita-bandha, or role-reversal positions, and are fascinating because they make it clear that women's sexual needs were seen to he as important as those of men, The methods suggested demonstrate an informed awareness of how a woman's sexual response differs from that of a man.
They are the forerunners of techniques that are advocared by modern sex therapists. Pressing her breast to his and steading herself by sipping his wise, she moves her hips in every drection. The feeling of power that this gives can.
Even though its outlook feels dated, and perhaps even alien, The Perfumed Garden goes to the heart of the matter, explaining a wealth of positions and techniques that will, in fact, deepen the experience of lovemaking for man and woman alike. For them, the primary goa! Exploring the positions on the following pages, all inspired by The Perfumed Garden, should form part of that quest.
Here, for example, he has selected a classic position irr which a man with a long penis could easily adjust his length of thrust sos not co but his partnet This isa very real considetation when the man and the woman are of greatly differing builds. The second posture is a very practical md of making intercourse possible for the man who is patticulah uunderendowed, but I suspect that most women would find it difficult oF uncomforeable.
These inclade masturbation, mutual masturbation, oral sex, and the use of sex aids. Such a man is relished and appreciated by women; this is because the woman loves the man only for the sake of coition.
During sexual arousal, the vaginal canal undergoes a process called tenting, which involves the enlargement of its upper end to accommodate the deep-thrusting penis. Nefeawi wars, however —with te oF no jusificatim—that the posture may cause rheumatism Deep penetration Nero hen TOSITIONS in which the man and woman lie side by side and cncate doch facing each other, as they do in this one, are excellent for inspiring deep feelings ee of loving tenderness.
Alternatively, he can hold her waist or hips and. Ifar some time in our evolution CLASSIC rear-entry posture generates a wwe were truly ape-like, we would have copulated in this style, The buttocksare considered by anthropologists to give our strong sexual signals, nd it has been suggest- ced thatthe only reason the breasts in the human female are as fully developed as they are, compared to those of other primates, is because they are imitating the visual appeal of the buttocks.
Her hair will be black, her forchead wide, she will have eve- brows of Ethiopian blackness, large black eyes, with the whites in them very limpic. IF one Tooks at a wortan with those qualities in front, one is fascinated: if from behind, one dies with pleasure.
She can either pull her crossed legs back before he enters her or, as The Perfumed Garden suggests, cross her legs beneath her thighs so he can knzel astride her. EACH OF THE TWO Vatiations on this eros-legged posture has its own special advantages I suggest that you use the legs-pulled-back version when you wish for deep penetration and G-spot stimulation, and the legs-under-the-thighs version for clitoral stimulation. In the reax-entry versions, the woman can either lie facedown across a bed with her knees an the floor, or stand and lean forward over it.
In the face- Jace version, she lies on hey back. The woman les on the bed with her legs stretched out and parted, and he kneels betwven her thighs. The movement of intercourse will pull the woman's labia chythmically across her clitoris, creating a gentle, stimulating friction that may teigger orgasm. He identifies dozens of types, but gives pe.
Its form i graceful, ies odor pileasone; the whiteness of ts outside sets off its carmine ved middle. One hing thar becomes clear abeut the Sheikh, on reading the elaborate etl he ges in his deserptons ofthe diferent pes of sexual nature of men and women, ishow sesully experienced he ise must have been. In his description of the many differen varanss of male and female genial, he is relly talking about che nature of the man oF woman, rather then the eye of his pon orher ele Penetration ent yur bees wad Wold ou legs back.
At the moment of orgasm, Sheth suggests, he showld grasp her upper arms sana draw her to him. He suggests that it should be ered only by a man who has short or soft member , Sheikh Nefzawi demonstrates a sound grasp of sexual anatomy. To get plenty out of this pose he needs to do just two things: lie back and feel the joy. However, he can also pull his legs down to encourage her to go lower and lower. For those days when he wants to work his guns instead of burning his core, he can sit back and maximize the sensations by curling her up and down and gyrating her hips in a circular motion.
He can extend and expand his mounting move by lubricating her front side and then rubbing his whole body up and down in a slippery massage that will have her begging for the final slide inside. A dangling leg swung back and forth becomes orgasm bait - the wider she can cast it out. She can add to his joy by pulsing her legs ever so slightly. The added thigh movement will give him an extra rush in this already-tight fit.
Here is her opportunity to bring him to ecstasy by pleasuring him in a flesh-to-flesh love-in that leaves room for kissing, caressing and conversation. Tossing one leg over his shoulder is a great way to improve access and an even better way for her to keep her balance if he makes her weak at the knees.
The fresh entry angle affords him a killer view of her pivoting posterior, giving him the opportunity to create all sorts of sweet new sensations. This pose offers lots of leverage for red-hot riding. This means that both pardners can keep up a fairly steady rhythm without losing momentum as they gallop toward a real orgasmic round-up.
Stroking herself while doing the bump-and-grind gives twice as much titillation, which can launch her to an otherworldly orgasm. With his arms outside her legs, she can communicate an astonishing amount of information about her pleasure with a squeeze here, a push here and a final uncontrollable, suffocating constriction.
No doggy has ever enjoyed playing with a ball more. Instead of being buried in a mattress or getting burned on the carpet. This is a high-energy pose for the strong of heart and arm for him only. She should take care not to vault onto his groin with too much vigor, or she may end up breaking his bounce permanently. Her pose means that he can watch her taking care of his business and enjoy her curves at the same time.
Flex time is sex time. Enlightenment is great, but mixing some yoga stretches into their lovemaking is going to have more of an immediate, extremely erotic benefit for couples: earthly bliss.
Deep breathing necessary. One of the more creative positions, this pose can actually translate into hours of high-friction fun once they get the balance right. When she sits on the side, it means all he has to do is reach in and let his fingers do the walking, dialing up her numbers to immeasurable heights. She should make sure her neck is supported on his feet to avoid embarrassing- to-explain injuries.
In this slight variation on the classic hound pose, she lies flatter, which changes the angle just enough for him to nudge against her G-spot with his bone. By bending one leg forward, she gains a greater range of motion — including circular — while her straight back leg will produce added snugness that will have them sprinting toward the finish line. The closer he brings his knees to his chest, the easier it will be for her to pay some amorous attention to main accessory.
It may look like a trust-building exercise, but when she clamps down tightly around him with her PC muscles, it is guaranteed to bring their tryst to a sweet, speedy conclusion. This passion pose in unusual in that it is deeply relaxing for her while still giving him a pleasurable panorama of her posterior. This relaxing pose is incredibly comfortable for both partners without losing any of the pleasure — the angle is nearly perfect for him to go in deep and scorch her inner hot spots.
If she props her chin on her fist, with her pinkie pointing down, she can use a finger to put pressure on his perineum the magic bit of flesh between his balls and bottom. The fun begins when he leans back, crushing their groins together in a hot, juicy mash. This young and restless pose has both partners positioned face-forward in their most comfortable TV-watching chair with a clear view of whatever action is on the screen.
The faster they wing it, the more intense the bliss. This tit-for-tat pose ensures that he can reciprocate the pleasure and lick rings around her rosie. She better be an expert to do this ultimate deep-throat position. He is in control of the thrusting, and the farther her head is over the edge of bed, the wider her throat opens to accommodate him without gagging.
For this bottom-to-bottom bump to work, he is going to need thighs of steel or else give in to the impulse and simply sit on her, which should make for some very deep, meaningful sex indeed. A little firm, well-placed stroking can turn her cross-eyed with pleasur. Tiny shifts in how each person balances their weight will change the direction of his dangle, bringing both partners to dizzying heights of pleasure.
There is nothing both partners to dizzying heights of pleasure. There is nothing boring about that! Lying on his side adds an extra sensational slant to events as it lets her work the angle and slip in some extra handiwork.
This clasping position is fabulous for inducing the sort of This clasping position is fabulous for inducing the sort of. This superadvanced position uses an exercise ball to smooth out the usually bumpy ride that comes ball to her being on top, but slow, controlled up-and-down with her being on top, but slow, controlled up-and-down movements are best or she risks falling off. She loves this position because she gets to balance herself over him just the way she likes, but he should be warned that she may practically suffocate him when she hits her moan zone.
Give her an O! Gooooooo O! To hit her high note even faster, she can multitask - here, sitting in reverse cowgirl stimulates her inner back wall, while using an erotic electronic on herself adds plenty of instant all-over excitement. Staying vertical is crucial to bathroom-stall trysts because it keeps naked flesh off questionable surfaces and is fairly easy to do in tight spaces.
So she gets to relax while he takes full control to go as fast, slow or deep as he pleases. This is a very erotic and intimate position because they can extend the passion with lots of kissing and touching. The longer the buildup, the more powerful and exciting the climax when they finally let go. A staircase is another ideal place to put this position into blissful action. Once they have some serious momentum, she should surprise him by lifting her hips without warning so that he pops out.
Then after hovering for a second she can move back down on him. Repeat as needed. This flip on missionary is comfortable and intimate, which makes her feel seductive and sensual and all but guarantees an earth-shattering climax. But beware- she may never want to just lie on her back again. Both partners can add to the excitement with this pose.
While he supports her body and controls the main movement, she should arch her back to better thrust her groin against him. With her on top in this 69 he can treat her booty to an erotic massage while keeping her legs wide enough to give him a great angle on her hot spot. She may be lying down, but her stride will be the primary force in this pose. She can march her feet up and down his chest to adjust the angle of penetration until she finds the formula that works best for her.
Rather than just moving up and down, which can be tiring for her and leave her less time to concentrate on her own pleasure, she can try grinding forward and back, rubbing her groin against his.
This is not a hold than can be maintained for long, so wait until the final round. They will need to plant their legs firmly to get enough lusty leverage for strong thrusting. The deep, intense penetration of this up-in-the-air pose will send her spinning into the stratosphere, no air bag required. This low-energy carnal cuddle is perfect for those lazy days when one or both partners want some extra tawdry action that is outside of the bedroom, but without the athletic effort.
He has plenty of room to maneuver in this pose so she can gyrate her hips side to side to create her private orgasm dance. If he can rub his belly and pat his head at the same time, then he will be able to swivel her hips in tiny circles while he rocks back and forth, ensuring a mind-blowing climax for both of them.
This unusual and challenging twist on the 69 pose is sure This unusual and challenging twist on the 69 but is will only enjoy it if the chair has plenty of padding since there will be a lot of pressure on her shoulders To stop her from falling flat on her face, they will need To stop her from falling flat regions extra they will need she feels herself slipping, she can use her legs to squeeze tight and keep the carnal connection.
On the plus side for his hand has easy access to the action area. They can spot each other in this challenging pose, taking They rocking their hips back and forth although as the tension of their amorous ascent rises, they will begin moving as one in a blissfully orgasmic blur. Balancing acts are a great way to add an exciting edge to erotic play.
The thrill of feeling the chair rock precariously with every thrust will send their adrenaline levels skyrocketing. He will turn her to putty with this two-handed massage trick. Gently pressing on the secret hot spot about three inches below her belly button helps boost blood flow for a yowza effect on the whole pelvic area.
The chance for overloading on skin contact makes this The chance for overloading on skin contact makes this support her as she arches her body upward gives him the extra-smoldering view of her ecstasy. When a couple is not within the same height range, the best way to get it together on the run is for her to the on something.
He will find it totally wanton when she acts like his tawdry tour guide, taking him downtown on a trip of exactly what kind of strokes make her vocal. Dangling her leg in everwidening circles guarantees the sort of buzzy vibrations that will make them both want to come back for more and more.
He can up her anticipation with surprise moves such to unexpected licks, kisses and caresses. All it takes to boost the basic missionary out of the same-old, same-old is a simple leg lift.
The higher she inches up either leg on his body, the steamier things will get. He will need to have very strong legs to support her extracurricular activities, so she should work hard and fast at pleasing him as well as herself. She should be prepared for instant liftoff. Rather than a straightforward in-and-out, she should rock gently backward and forward while he swivels hips in small circular motions to pump up the pleasure.
She will feel like she is floating on a cloud even before her orgasm — she can lie back, breathe deep and let him rock her to ecstasy. He can add a few moguls and tilt against her in all of the right places by rocking back and forth instead of pumping up and down. With her legs spread ceiling to floor and his back leg providing ample leverage, they are sure to experience plenty of fast-fluttering action in this position.
She should squeeze her thighs preview oddtogether pages,todownload press his groin into a stiff full ebook holding pattern for a snug : sex Leaning back will show off her full-frontal assets to their best advantage by making her stomach look flatter and her breasts perkier.
In this royal position, the king and queen can share power by taking turns controlling the movement. She can rock for a while then stop and let him do some thrusting. It works great as long as only one partner rules at time. What is lost in free movement is more then made up for in longing looks and deep kisses.
He opens and closes her limbs with every thrust, stretching her from pleasingly wide open to totally titillating tight.
From deep to squeezed, each stroke will give her something new to moan about. Not for a shy girl, this extremely wide-open position has loving attention he is able and willing to give her. Both partners will discover some new O-zones when he lifts her leg and adjusts the angle of penetration.
Doggy position is an all-purpose move no matter what size he is — the angle of the dangle means there is never any danger of him slipping out, no matter how hot and heavy the action gets.
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